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I specialize in showing

amazing men like you how

to master communication

with the woman in

your life for more

sex, support & peace.


To play, press and hold the enter key. To stop, release the enter key.

Fantasize for a moment...

…standing in the living room, having a conversation,

and noticing she’s listening without interruption,

looking at you with softness in her eyes,

and you, uninterrupted, saying what’s on your mind

– You feel over-appreciated, acknowledged, & respected...

That’s what happens to my clients.


Frequent disagreements?

Heard that. 

Over-talked or ignored?

Heard that, too.

In 2015 I created a communication

program to fix these problems. 

You don't know what you don't know.

Now, I teach men how to win with women!

You are Amazing! 

Every superhero needs a sidekick and I'm here to help you.

Know what to say, how to say it, and when to say it.

Get the appreciation, acknowledgement, and respect you dream of.

Your Count Down To Win



I’ll walk you through how to
build your solution strategy in
just 1 day (I got u!)



See exactly how to design  communication scripts in
10 minutes and NO stress



Learn the easy steps to
guarantee you get 75% more support, sex, and peace

Know exactly what to say in any scenario with bae, boo or love. This is the BIG ONE thing! 


It's all strategy and it's pipeline for Successful Communication!

Strategy increases support, sex & peace by 75%.

I teach these strategies to my coaching clients

- individual, groups, and companies. 

Only 8 Words to Have Peaceful Relationsh


Every day I hear people use damaging words on family members, friends, and coworkers. Damaging words will kill the relationship and risk you losing it & them forever. I'll show you how to change that.


Sulonda is by far the best counselor I've ever visited. She's knowledgeable, direct,but kind and her approach was individualized for me. I went to her for one concern and she helped me with a lot more. If your want a great well rounded nonjudgmental counselor you definitely should try Sulonda!!! She also coaches you through obstacles to reach your goals.

Albert Ayas


Sulonda provides a very vital and necessary service to the world through her counseling. She is gifted with incredible insight, a delightful personality, and a remarkable listening ear. I have known Sulonda for a number of years and have been the grateful beneficiary of professional counseling. She utilizes a unique balance of time tested practices along with cutting edge and innovative techniques to produce the best results. I highly recommend Sulonda. She has a magnificent way of enriching people's lives.

Joseph L. Jones


Sulonda is great! She gives tools customized to you and your situation. She is knowledgeable in so many areas- religiously, spirituality, emotionally and mentally. She can talk with you on whatever plane you want to talk. She has been incredibly instrumental in helping me become a much better version of myself as well as a much more attentive and present partner. She's super cool and chill.​

Devin Alphin

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I have always gotten a lot from Sulonda when I work with her.  There is always something new to learn. I look at things differently now especially in my relationship. She helped me become my best self and get a use a strategy to build a happy life. She has a way of listening and hearing things I didn't say but knew actually what I was thinking. I never thought about getting help for problems, but I am glad I did! Sulonda is laid back. She knows a lot about men and what they need the most.

Alfred Titus



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Hello lovely! I’m Sulonda Smith, a former counselor of 23 years from The Inner Circle Counseling Center who helped individuals, couples, and companies fix failing marriages, family conflict, and strained coworker relationships and interactions. I’m the creator of #WinWithWomen, a 6-week online training that helps men communicate better and build their confidence in relationships just the way they dream them to be.

I've coached 1000's of men for over 20 years worldwide who are influencers, Techies, celebrities, business owners, and just hard-working men in strained relationships with women. 

My vision is for everyone (men and women) to have the ultimate relationship adventures by mastering communication. Less fight, less struggle equals big wins, happiness, and peace. 

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Facilitated workshops for men in

companies, churches and nonprofits for 15+ years

Saved 100’s of global clients  $10,000 to $100,000 in divorce fees

Expert Author and creator  of She Said He Heard This online Academy for men by 2019

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Speaker at Boys & Girls Clubs, EPIC Conference, Families FIRST, Atlanta Courts & Justice Center, AID Atlanta & more

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As a woman, teacher, psychotherapist, spiritual guide and coach, I’ve

healed broken hearts, taught masterful communication skills, and

trained amazing leaders to confidently show up in the world!


Want to book me 1:1

Want my help to become a great communicator in for your life, relationship or organization?

Check out my raw speaker reel here!

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Must Have Tools

Use only 8 words for more peace in your relationships.

Get my audio guide to improve communication in your relationship and work-life?